I have been waiting for Mr. Right a long time. But I know that God cares every bit about my desires. My emotions were extreme, chaotic hindering rational thinking. When my emotion are chaotic, God leads us to our blessings. After I prayed, I feel peace. He helped me to realize that singleness is only a gift, not a curse. I praised God praying in the spirt.
A Faith Walk
T.D. Jakes said, “Singles should be the most anointed people in the church.” Single women can exercise their faith each hour, without a man. For example, I used faith with prayer overcoming family problems. As a young Christian I found scriptures in the Bible and confessed God’s plan over my family.
When I prayed for my mom’s health and salvation, God answered those prayers. Even though I expected a specific strategy from God, he worked out the problem using a different method. Answers arrived slowly. In time, mom confessed the word over her life. My mom and I laugh about her spirituality. She did not like attending church at that.
Being single is an opportunity to build your faith. If I have a husband, I probably depend on him. I constantly monitor my faith walk and finances overcoming any financial obstacles. My faith expanded during every financial crisis because God provided. I do not know about your circumstances right now. Do you lack faith while facing mountains? I learn about God faithfulness when I trust him more.
Jesus said, “Keep on asking, and you will received what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you.” Matthew 7:7 NLT
Our mouths kill faith. The bible says the tongue is hard to control. Christians’ success depends on their confessions. Obey the word, and God prepares a table for you. Even though circumstances look hopeless, we speak positive words while waiting for the answer.
You don’t realize all the blessings God prepares. He knows each details of our lives (the number of hairs on our head.)
As you wait patiently, but God determines your season of blessings… Don’t worry.
If you are not content single, then you would be miserable in a marriage. Thinking negatively, women get angry. No one can make another person happy, except God. Single ladies worship God in your car, praise him through lonely times, and thank him for future blessings.
Single ladies allow God to be your husband, and God will bless every area of your life.
How many women learn about financial literacy before marriage? Fourteen years ago I was miserable working overtime and accumulating debt. Since I had to learn about financial literacy, I began to understand how the world handles money.
Before God blesses you with a Boaz, what financial problems hinder your progress? Do you spend too much money on shoes or clothes? Does you argue over finances with your significant other?
Ignoring these serious discussions, couples don’t establish effective communication and rules concerning finances in the future. Before I can be a wife, God wants me to manage the household budget.
Take an inventory of your finances. Do I tithe consistently? Lord, I ask you for guidance with finances during our engagement. If we do not tithe and give offerings, please show us. God designates man over the household, but a woman still gives her husband guidance through prayer.
God’s plan for marriage
Single Women be strong in the Lord. Many of us achieved successful careers trust God for the right mate. In the world, some women have lower for a mate. In the Kingdom of God, women don’t chase men. In fact, some women wait longer than others. That’s okay. God controls each season.
As you believe God for a mate, write out your list. Do you enjoy someone with a sense of humor? Do you like to cook or travel? We do not serve a boring God which can amaze us with blessings. Occasionally, I update my list praying for my future husband.
This blogs posts was difficult to write because I had so many thoughts running through my mind. I wanted to write about my experiences, but I didn’t know how to articulate thoughts.